The Couple Map
Across the United States, the couple makes the first approach.
840+couples have joined VEX across the United States.
Verification happens in the app.
Couples who have joined VEX within 60 miles of each city
Couples who have joined VEX within 60 miles of each city
Arizona
10+ couples near its citiesCalifornia
70+ couples near its citiesColorado
10+ couples near its citiesConnecticut
20+ couples near its citiesDistrict of Columbia
10+ couples near its citiesFlorida
60+ couples near its citiesGeorgia
30+ couples near its citiesIllinois
20+ couples near its citiesIndiana
20+ couples near its citiesKentucky
10+ couples near its citiesMaryland
10+ couples near its citiesMassachusetts
20+ couples near its citiesMichigan
20+ couples near its citiesNevada
10+ couples near its citiesNew Hampshire
10+ couples near its citiesNew Jersey
30+ couples near its citiesNew York
40+ couples near its citiesNorth Carolina
30+ couples near its citiesOhio
40+ couples near its citiesOregon
10+ couples near its citiesPennsylvania
40+ couples near its citiesRhode Island
10+ couples near its citiesTennessee
30+ couples near its citiesTexas
80+ couples near its citiesUtah
10+ couples near its citiesWashington
10+ couples near its citiesWisconsin
10+ couples near its citiesWhat happens after you apply
You never browse them.
On VEX the couple chooses, and the bull is chosen.
- A couple finds you and sends a Signal. You echo it, and a private lounge opens.
- Couples near you post open calls. You apply with one written answer.
- Verification compares a fresh selfie, taken in the app, with your profile photo.
- Nothing about you is public unless you choose to share it.
How the map is counted
Every number comes from VEX records and is counted each night. The national total counts every couple on VEX with a home location in the United States. A couple is counted for a city when their home location on VEX is within 60 miles of its centre. Bulls wanted marks a city where couples on VEX clearly outnumber bulls. Solo hotwives on VEX are counted with couples. A city shows its own number once at least ten couples have joined near it; until then it shows its state or the national total. The circles overlap, so city numbers are never added together. Each number is a floor: a city's is rounded down to the nearest 5 and a state or national total to the nearest 10, so 25+ means at least 25. No individual is ever shown. Updated October 22, 2026.
Questions
Every number comes from VEX's own records and is counted each night. Nothing is estimated, and no individual couple is ever shown.
No. Bulls do not browse couples on VEX. A couple finds you and makes the first approach with a Signal.
A city shows its own number once at least ten couples have joined near it. Until then it shows its state or the national total, so no small group is ever singled out.
Download VEX, choose Bull, and verify with a selfie taken in the app. Couples see nearby, compatible bulls first.
The strongest asset is the one that is ready when called.
Apply as a bull. Verification happens in the app.