The Showroom shows only bulls whose verification has passed, with nearby, compatible men first. You never type a search; the bulls come to you.
The Difference
A bull appears in your Showroom only once his verification has passed: a fresh in-app selfie compared with his profile photo, plus at least one approved, unblurred photo.
You answer eleven questions at initiation, from pacing and protection to who sets the tempo, and the answers lock once submitted. The Showroom then puts nearby, compatible bulls first.
Bulls cannot browse couples, so no single man finds your profile by looking. Screen capture is blocked across the app, and an Open Call never shows him your name, handle, bio or photos.
48:00:00
Every Lounge runs on a 48-hour countdown that both of you can see. Either of you can add 24 hours once, and then it's time to meet or move on.
Questions
Set up your couple account, answer the eleven resonance questions, then open the Showroom, where nearby, compatible bulls come first. When one stands out, send a Signal; only a couple can. Or post one anonymous Open Call and read who applies.
A fresh selfie, taken in the app and compared with his profile photo using AWS Rekognition face matching. Until it passes, and until he has at least one approved, unblurred photo, he doesn't appear in your Showroom and can't apply to your Open Call.
Start with his reputation, which tracks confirmed meetups, reliability, boundary IQ, etiquette and disputes. The Showroom's one filter, vouched-only, narrows the field further. After that, the conversation in the Lounge is where you find out.
Yes. Once he echoes your Signal, a private Lounge opens with a shared 48-hour countdown, and either side can add 24 hours once. That window is for deciding whether to meet.
Look past the selfie check to his reputation, then use the Lounge's 48 hours to hear how he communicates before you agree to meet.
Discretion, clear communication, alignment with your pacing, and the understanding that you set all terms. The first Signal is always yours to send, so you set that tone from the start.
With a Signal, which only an active couple member can send. He answers by echoing it, and that opens your private Lounge.
Post an Open Call instead. Nearby bulls apply with one written answer, and the call never shows them your name, handle, bio or photos.
Yes. A couple picks one of two dynamics, Hotwife and Cuckold or Stag and Vixen, and in both she's the partner who meets the third. Say which one you are early, so he knows which room he's walking into.
They don't. Bulls cannot browse couples on VEX, so a bull hears from you only when you send a Signal, or reads your anonymous Open Call, which never shows him your name, handle, bio or photos.
By design. Nothing on VEX can be browsed without an account, bulls cannot browse couples, and screen capture is blocked across the app.
Where you are matters more than which city. The Showroom puts nearby, compatible bulls first, and nearby bulls can apply to an Open Call you post.
Nearby is the rule. The Showroom puts nearby, compatible bulls first, so it reflects where you are rather than a fixed city, and nearby bulls can apply to an Open Call you post.
Both of you see a shared 48-hour countdown, and either side can add 24 hours once. It keeps the conversation pointed at a decision instead of drifting for weeks.
Yes. One couple account holds both partners, with the second joining by invitation, and VEX runs on iOS and Android.
On iPhone and Android. Only couples can browse it.